OK, this is when it gets a bit embarrassing to be a Canuck. Things like knowing your own history, celebrating your own country and its traditions or celebrating what you have in common is all so, you know, blurry around the edges for us. We need to have a sit down on a day like this. Heck, we get confused if someone offers us a Dr. Pepper, worrying so that it is far too American for us. So, seeing as I was tagged by Dandy Dan the Dandy Man, had the computer eat the draft a bit ago to tell you seven things about myself and, because of the day, I am going to make them seven things about me and the USA:
- We traveled to Cape Cod from suburban Toronto for a number of summers before we moved to Nova Scotia when I was seven. Crabs nipped at my toes. The Holiday Inn in Utica had a kidney shaped pool. My mother needed to see the sea and as a result I think that real things happen near the ocean. Not sure about mid-continent though the Great Lakes help.
- One year we didn't go east. We drove to California. I think I was three. I still recall the horror of driving through the desert in a station wagon and watching the crayons liquify in the sunlight through the window.
- I have more relatives in the US than in Canada - more in South Africa, the UK and Australia for that matter. The Canadian wing of the clan is a bit of a blip of the tartan diaspora of '56.
- I enjoy watching Canadians being served northern US unsweetened iced tea about as much as anything else. At the Irving truck stop in Calais Maine there is a non-stop performance of screwed up faces, confusion and head shaking on display all for the price of your own lunch and a chair in the corner.
- When I was ten, I saw my only Red Sox game at Fenway and it was perfect. Tiant pitching versus the Yanks, I sat in the top single bum seat of the bleachers, saw the game won in the tenth inning with a home run over the Big Green Monster. I have an untold affection for my Boston cousins because of the opportunity to have that memory.
- I went to Washington on the same trip as the Fenway game. Saw the Smithsonian and bought astronaut toys when the Apollo missions were on. Space was cool when I was a kid, before the Canadarm, before Marc Garneau. No one bitched about the US when it was about space.
- Seven....seven....seven...hmmm. Oh yes, Americans make far better beer. Some of it quite nearby.
There you go. Hug a Yank today. Learn your own history and thank them for the difficult and wonderful friendship we share. And did you know that our great friend Damian is already over in Afghanistan? Don't you dare forget to donate.

Comments
Seanie - January 20, 2009 11:36 am
I must say the unsweetened iced tea confuses me. I mean, yanks tend to sugar coat everything, why not sweeten the iced tea? Furthermore, I am always frustrated when in the US I order a "tea" they say "hot tea"?... Do they really drink so much Iced Tea that anything else is an oddity? Although I note that of late, in a few well known restaurants in Ktown, I have been asked "hot tea"? and have been confused.
And BTW, as we are on the US-Canada theme, I have always been confused and somewhat annoyed that locals (in Ktown) tend to say MELK instead of MILK. We lecture our kids all the time about the white beverage's proper pronunciation thanks to this anomaly. Then I discovered from a friend that across the border, people tend to say MELK as well..
It is spelled MILK like SILK and rhymes accordingly...
Alan - January 20, 2009 12:22 pm
Yes, the really drink that much unsweetened iced tea in the north. Dandy stuff and good for you.
I was raised to distinguish between whales and Wales by ensuring I was blowing out when I hit the "h". Even as a child I knew worrying about such things was a total waste of time.
Seanie - January 20, 2009 12:37 pm
I beg to differ. I think the downfall of a lot of what was good about Canadian society started when people began allowing children to call adults by their first names and when proper speech stopped being the requirement and became instead the quaint oddity. When I was a kid, everyone my parents knew was an Uncle, Aunt or Mr./Mrs to me and respect was instantly afforded. I blame the boomers.
Alan - January 20, 2009 12:53 pm
That is modernity not Canada.
Alan - January 20, 2009 1:34 pm
Inaugural Speech in full. I was a bit surprised how the presentation was not as powerful as it might have been but I was listening to the radio and did not see it on TV.
Alan - January 20, 2009 1:49 pm
The source of the ending imagery, "The American Crisis" by Thomas Paine.
Temujin - January 20, 2009 3:03 pm
Oh yes, Americans make far better beer.
How dare you?
Actually, you are probably correct. My experience with Natural Lite affects my opinion.
Seanie - January 20, 2009 8:43 pm
Well, then IMHO, modernity sucks. I want 1951 England, in particular, Yorkshire. Properness.. Civility, stiff upper lips in the face of adversity instead of complaining and whining and blaming everything wrong on everyone but one's self.
I was home sick all day but didn't watch the inagu-thing at all. Pomp, meh.
Alan - January 20, 2009 9:50 pm
1951? You forgot disease and the absence of dental care, social inequity and food stamps still six years after the war was over. The very things that drove the clan away.
And if you want that - why do you complain, whine and blame everything on others so much?
Matthew Fletcher - January 20, 2009 11:36 pm
"meh" says the man complaining about modernity and the decline of language!
Another awesome dose of irony from Seanie!
If one is homesick its time to head home.
I read the text of the speech twice in the afternoon before seeing it on YouTube this evening. I was much more impressed with it before viewing the performance. A lot was lost in the delivery, but I still got in a fun argument at an innaugural party this evening defending the speech to a young woman who was completely unimpressed with it.
Ben (The Tiger) - January 21, 2009 5:30 am
In defense of the president -- it was frickin' cold out there.
Alan - January 21, 2009 7:58 am
Not to mention he was beig made the frikkin President of the United States.
Hey - it's almost 7 am on Wednesday...did he shut Gitmo yet?
David Janes - January 21, 2009 8:11 am
Yeeearrrgggggggg!
Renee - January 21, 2009 8:52 am
Mr. Sean has a point. Manners matter. The problem is that we didn't figure out how to shed repression and social stratification without also shedding a sense of responsibility and personal honour.
Alan - January 21, 2009 9:07 am
I disagree completely. There is plenty of civility going around. I don't need anyone to be my better to hold a door. But wallowing in negativity is no way to promote it. It's just the neighbour of bad manners.
Hans - January 21, 2009 9:14 am
I tagged you too: http://nissologypei.blogspot.com/2009/01/seven-things-island-stylee.html
Seanie - January 21, 2009 10:56 am
There is a difference between utilizing new words in speech and not speaking politely.
Alan - January 21, 2009 11:29 am
"Meh" disproves that principle. Both uncivil and new.
Matthew Fletcher - January 21, 2009 2:05 pm
Seanie,
I agree actually, but how is saying "Melk" instead of "Milk" impolite? That is afterall how this discussion got started.
Different people speak different ways, pronounce things differently; some don't even speak English.
If the discussion is about politeness and civility, can we abandon the argument that "melk" is impolite or incorrect and in general that pronouncing words differently than you do is not a sign of disrespect or laziness but infact just different?
Alan - January 21, 2009 2:24 pm
But that would require we recognize that when Erasmus said "man is the measure of all things" (I think) he didn't mean it as a good thing when it means each person.
Alan - January 21, 2009 2:39 pm
Dang - that was Protagorus. But it is in there in In Praise of Folly at around paragraph 33:
"...A man dead to all sense of nature and common affections, and no more moved with love or pity than if he were a flint or rock; whose censure nothing escapes; that commits no errors himself, but has a lynx's eyes upon others; measures everything by an exact line, and forgives nothing; pleases himself with himself only..."
Seanie - January 21, 2009 3:03 pm
Hi Matthew. Sorry, my points are getting mixed up. Saying melk is not impolite at all, just an oddity of the local dialect that bugs me. Not the Queens english hoy hoy and all that.
Children referring to adults by their first name is in my opinion impolite. Yes, I know, some people don't like the title Mister or Missus (?) or even Ms. for that matter, but many children nowadays assume a first name is allowed regardless of being told it was acceptable or not. To me, that breeds a lack of respect because without that modicum of title, the children feel more on par with the adult. It was only an example in my opinion of modern loosening of traditional civility.