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Mike -

I say the side with the most Friends wins.

Alan -

I am starting to get "friend" requests from people I did not know or did not like if I did. It sullies the whole thing.

Mike -

I think they should add an 'Enemies' feature as well.

Alan -

It goes to the very core of the digital social network fraud, that comment does, Mike. You should brace yourself. But your point is true and you should stick by it. What I really want is a spectrum or even some sort of X-Y axis continuum whereby you can identify how long ago you knoew the person and how much you actually liked them.

Gordo -

Wouldn't that be the "Top Friends" app, Al? I haven't tried it, but it strikes me as something along those lines.

Alan -

But in life, I have no "top friends". It is an unknown term. I have friends, acquaintances, people I know, people I know and don't care much for, people who are a pain in the ass and hazy bot-like entities who leave comments on blogs. Each of these needs its own classification and unique set of permissions in relation to access and reference to me.

Gordo -

Truth be told, I have a bit of an issue with the "Friend" designation on Facebook. The simple fact of meeting/going to school with/being my nephew doesn't necessarily make you my friend.

My rule of thumb is thus: An acquaintance will help you move; a friend will help you move a body. Whether folks are willing to admit it or not, almost nobody has dozens of friends. :-)

Ben (The Tiger) -

Perhaps your friends are more giving, Gordo -- I've always said that a friend will help you move, and a good friend will help you move a body...

Facebook friends, though -- I have somewhere north of 200. That's totally not a reflection of reality. At least, reflections other than from funhouse mirrors...

Jay Currie -

Every time I look at facebook/myspace I am reminded of how rare actual friends are. I suppose that's what SecondLife is for - an entirely invented reality populated by avatars rather than the friendly dweeb who ran your highschool's A/V club.

(Of course it is a measure of how much time I spend online that, when I refer to "x" as "my friend x", my partner will ask if I have ever, you know, physically met the person in question. In at least 50% of the cases I haven't.)

Alan -

I suppose I have met a bunch of you but, with respect, that does not a friend make.

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